The Gentlemen for hire.

Significant school or college reunions: seeking a reunion plus-one date. We can have an amazing time with your former classmates. Reunions are always great to catch up on where life direction has taken everyone from your school days. There are times when you want to go alone, but at times you would like a date to come along. That's what I'm here for.

Or if your former classmates are looking great in pictures you’ve seen online, showing off their perfect lives with their great husbands or boyfriends, let’s show those high school or college alumni from your past the good-looking couple we are. I’ll fill the gentleman role through your knowledge of those you wish to show up. 

We can go in either fashion; you make the call. Whichever direction you decide, we will have a blast in the time we spend together.

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Put those co-workers aside; you and I will be the center of attention if that’s what you desire, or just enjoy being part of the experience. You will have your co-workers thinking of how you stole the party this time. Let’s put the paperwork down and show them who’s boss. It’s all up to you how you want things to go. Be the life of the party or just be immersed in it.

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The big end-of-the-year celebrations.

All the right people are in the right place, but you feel out of place for the year’s main events because you’re not there with someone. 

Don’t go at it alone. Let's bring in the New Year together. There are so many things set up for the end-of-the-year celebrations. Don’t spend it alone wishing you were there rather than watching it on TV. Let’s go and bring the New Year in right. Or if you're wanting a companion to watch it on TV and hangout. We can relax and watch it all happen from the couch.

Or we can enjoy the Christmas holiday together in the same fashion.

 (For New Years or Christmas You must book by October 1st.) Rates vary during this time frame.  

Halloween parties can be a blast. If you're going and will be single at one but would enjoy it much more with someone by your side, we can coordinate costumes to make it even more enjoyable.

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Having someone by your side as a plus-one date while attending a grand opening, symphony, ballet, opera, or the kickoff of a new business makes it all so much more exciting and truly enjoyable. Some are very formal, and some are very laid-back. You let me know the attire, and I'll dress the part. We can talk about the coordination of colors if you like between us so we will look amazing together. I'm very comfortable in all of these venues and will accompany you to any of these events.

All tuxedo events rates change.

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If you're thinking, "How can I finally show up my friends that brag about how great their lives are?" Let’s give them a show. I’ll help you set up pictures you can post with amazing videos and pictures of your spectacular life for social media if you want to go that route. If you need me to come to any event and play the true gentleman role in person, I'm there to accompany you by your side. Sometimes you just want to put someone in their place.

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If you are looking to attend a family get-together but don’t wish to go at it alone, or you need that guy to show your family that you are doing just fine, if it’s your relatives you choose to blow away with your new relationship, we got the outstanding couple vibes between us. Every so often it's just that little “see, I’m doing great” feeling you wish to express, or you just want a companion this time to relax and enjoy the family experience with. Let’s talk.

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So you got invited to an event or wedding of someone from your past, but all your friends think you’re married or dating someone. Or you told your mom and dad a little lie, you met the right guy, the man of your dreams, and got married or are dating. But now they are calling you out, and you need him to appear. Whether it's friends or family. Together we will convince them of that exact thing that even your parents or friends would believe. Then we can have that (if you like) bad breakup, and they never see me again. You direct how you want it to play out, and we go from there.

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We had it once, but we called it quits. I'm still around for you if you need me. We can set up all the details of where we met and our crazy romantic fling that ended as fast as it started. But I'm not too much of a loser, because I came with you to the event because I still am in love with you. If that's how you want it to play out. We can construct how it all can play out. Things can change up sometimes quickly; when this happens, I’m very quick to improvise.

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Be your long-lost best man. I'm that friend you have always talked about, but no one has ever met. I'm that one friend you want to be at your wedding and give you the best toast about what a wonderful friend you have been in the past.

Be one of your groomsmen: I’ll be at your wedding as a fill-in for one of your buddies from back in the day. We can build an amazing backstory, and then I will fill in the incredible details of things we did.

I can be a friend from the past that needs to appear. We can construct a great backstory to work from.

Sometimes we overdo it, and now everyone wants to meet the guy you have talked about all this time.

Or simply be an extra groomsman or stand-in best man needed for your wedding.

All tuxedo events rates change.

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 As a couple, sometimes you have a friend that calls for a quick plus-one date to go out to break up that “three is a crowd.” I'm always up for this role.

If you as a couple need a fill-in to occupy the role of a great long-lost friend, I’m that guy. At times as a couple, you just want to move up a notch in the social scene. A new great friend or one you have made up that needs to appear. I'm that guy. We can create an amazing backstory. Let’s talk.

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If you, your friends, or your business partners are throwing a party and want to occupy the party with professional individuals to help build social status, I can be an acquisition investor, forensics investigator, land developer, civil engineer, precious metals expert, or commercial construction business owner. These are just some roles I’ve been in in the past. If you can think of it, I’ll become it (to a point; there are ones I just can’t fill, like doctors, lawyers, and anything pertaining to the military). I’ll be that acquaintance, business connection, boyfriend, buddy, or friend who knows his profession very well.

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Go dancing, go to a party, go for drinks, shoot pool, go hiking, snowboarding, skiing, ball games, boating, go to a movie, etc. Don’t spend your weekdays and weekends thinking of what you could be doing. Let’s go do it together.

I'm not a therapist but an amazing listener and communicator. I would love to hear all about you.

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If you’re looking for a true gentleman plus-one date or companion to accompany you on a vacation or small getaway, I will be there for you on your trip. But we will need to know each other’s boundaries and keep things very professional while enjoying our time together. I can accompany you in just about any location. Email me to set up a time to talk on the phone.

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If you find yourself wanting a partner for swing, ballroom, jazz, salsa, waltz, rumba, hip hop, or line dancing, it's always fun and exciting to experience it with a partner. Or are you looking for someone to experience doing something you always wanted to do but could never find someone to do it with? Let’s have a talk to get you out doing things you always wanted to do.

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Sometimes we desire to support ourselves, and we twist the truth, and someone calls us out on it. If you have maybe gone too deep and desire someone to bail you out of a little lie or one that’s turned into a big one, I'm that guy you go to to move your story in a different direction. Showing you do, in fact, have that friend.

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I work with you to come to an agreement on how I will charge you for my services. Most often it’s hourly, and we nail down the hours I’ll be your plus-one/date, but if it’s going to be a short getaway, a long weekend, or a vacation, it can be a flat fee/rate if we agree upon a price. The hourly rate for the gentleman service is $125 per hour (a two-hour minimum is required) to $200 per hour for more complex plus ones (and holidays), as in helping in planning roles for the event, plus any and all expenses are paid by you, excluding the ride from and to our original meeting place. I do require payment in full before we begin. There is no explanation for using my services. We can discuss a flat rate for certain events. $200-$300 weddings sometimes fall under this umbrella.

I take payments through Venmo. Venmo is the most secure and easiest payment method for me. I don’t accept checks or visas.

What if you change your mind before we start or after we get to the event?

If you decide to change your mind before you have paid, then we are good, and both of us walk away happy. I don’t like to ever burn bridges. You may want my services one day in the future. I do take payment in full before we begin, though. I do this because I don’t chase money that’s owed to me when I’m done with the event/plus-one date being your companion. Usually, two days before our meeting up to go to the event/date, unless, of course, if you’re needing a quick plus-one, we can get things set up fast.

If for any reason you decide in the middle of an event you’ve changed your mind, let me know and I will exit, but you will need to get me back where we met so I can get to a vehicle to return home. The money you will already have paid me for the plus-one date is not refundable, just like paying to go to an event and you change your mind after it starts—you don’t receive a refund. I’m the same. Remembering that this would mean I lost the day or evening that could have been spent with another client. I never try to burn bridges; there is always a solution.

If time runs out and the event is fun and we are really enjoying ourselves. I can  stay and we keep the great vibe going. once we are done with our contract time I can make the choice to continue or call it a day. 

All tuxedo events rates change.

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1. I do not do anything other than being your intended gentleman, plus-one, companion/date for your event. This is not solicitation for sex or any act connected to sex. I am not a male prostitute for hire. There will be no exchange for money or anything of value for any sexual act or favors during the service time frame. I'm here to make sure your time with me is fun, exciting, relaxing, productive, and precise to your ending goal of making you look and feel truly amazing in the time we have together.  

2. I will say anything in front of your family, friends, coworkers, etc., that you want, with the exclusion of derogatory comments, mean comments, or acting mean to you or a family member, friend, coworker, etc. I will not stand up for you if you’re causing a scene or intentionally trying to fight someone.  

3. If you smoke cigarettes or do heavy drugs, we are not going to be working together. Marijuana and drinking—all for it, feel free. But I'm not fond of a lady that can’t hold her liquor. But ones that can are just fine by me.  

4. Oral hygiene is very important on my side, and I hope the same for yours.  

5. Where we met up is where I need to go back to after the event/plus-one date we are on. It is best to coordinate this ahead of time. If you’re unable to bring me back to the meeting place, then we will have that all set up prior.  

6. I’m paid in full before we meet. No exceptions. I won’t work with “Can I pay after?”  

7. If you're in a relationship (married or currently dating someone), the only way I work with you is if I talk with your significant other. I will not be part of a conflict between the two of you. If and only if they are completely on board with me accompanying you to an event will I do so. I'm not a home wrecker.  

8. This time is all about you. My personal life is not center stage. That spotlight is for you to stand in. So I don't talk about my personal life. I want to talk all about you!  

9. One of my most important rules is you have fun! Enjoy this time we are going to have together.  

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I get these questions the most.  

"Are you Gay?" 

I am not. I'm very straight. But I very much respect the LGBTQ community, as I have friends that are.  

"Are you married or do you have a girlfriend?"  

I am not married and I do not have a girlfriend.

"How tall are you?"  

I am 6'-0".  

"Can we hug, hold hands, or kiss?"  

Yes, but it needs to be where we both are comfortable in doing so in the moment.  

"Why won't you talk about your personal life"?

Two main reasons:  

One: This time is for you and it's all about you. Your life is fascinating, whether you think that or not. Most of the time you may not get the floor to talk all about yourself. This time is a spotlight on you.  

Two: Even though we are having an amazing time together, I still need to be professional. My personal life is not part of what I do for you. I know for a fact that without it you will have an incredible time.  

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 Today most women are strong, independent, and don't want to deal with drama in a relationship, or having to change who they are for a new man. The dating apps are there only for you to feel better when you get to swipe away the men that you don't find attractive. They are not designed to really meet someone. The pool of good men left is an extremely small one and getting smaller every day. I saw a need to fill where an independent woman wants to go out on a date without dealing with the drama that can go without being in a relationship.  

So first and foremost, this time we will be spending together is all about you. If you want me to not take my eyes off you, then that's how it will go. If you're wanting me to mingle but you know I'm thinking of you, then that will be what I show you. You call the shots! From a very young age, I've always had very high respect for human beings and know you should treat people with dignity and respect no matter the level of excellence you are at. Through my years of learning all aspects of body language, coupled with being a skilled conversationalist, I know very well how to read a room (the people in it). I pay close attention to who is skeptical and who is open. I know how to show my interest in the conversation at hand, and in true gentleman fashion. I know very well what things always work and what things don’t. During all this, you’ll feel like you’re the only one in the room in my eyes, if that’s our goal as well. I do this naturally, playing the role you're wanting. How complex that role is is up to you. If you’re wanting me to work off a backstory to convince everyone you intend on convincing about the role you’re having me play with you, I have no problem if this is your intention. I'm very spontaneous and can switch up the script fast if needed, which means if something or someone goes in a different direction than we anticipated, then I’m quick on my feet to improvise. I’ve saved many pitfalls in my day. If you're looking for a natural, amazing time or wanting to work from a backstory, we will have an exceptional time doing either one.

I’ve been and played most all the roles you can throw at me with excellence always in mind and being a true gentleman always first. I’ve been around the block many times and stopped at each door to learn everything—all aspects of people, body language, how to present my words, and how to script all that’s needed—and I know very well what things always work and what things don’t. I'm very detailed. If you give me your goal, I’ll most definitely make it happen, and you will walk away second-guessing that maybe you have known me in the way I just performed for you or your intended family, friends, or co-workers you need me for. Or just be a real, genuine gentleman with you on a plus-one date without any backstory; just you and I having an amazing time. It’s all up to you.

I dress very well and know my fashion. We can coordinate colors and fashions; if you like a certain hairstyle, if my hair hasn’t been cut short, there are times where I could fulfill that desire as well, however you like. 

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